What Can I Say? Social Skills Guide for Kids
The NY Times Bestseller That Gives Kids the Exact Words for Every Situation
Such a helpful book! My daughter loves the illustrations, and the real life examples make it easy for her to understand how to speak up, handle awkward moments, and be a better friend.
WHAT MAKES THIS BOOK A GAME-CHANGER
- Real Scripts. Real Situations. Real Confidence.
- NY Times Bestseller - Trusted by Thousands of Families
- Covers 100+ Social Situations From Friendships to Hard Talks
- Used by Parents, Teachers & Therapists Worldwide
- Fun Illustrations & Pop Quizzes Kids Actually Want to Read
- A Gift Kids Will Actually Use - For Years to Come
Give Your Kid the Words They Have Been Missing
- 📖 Real scripts for 100+ social situations
- 🤝 Builds genuine confidence - not just awareness
- 🎁 A gift kids actually want to read
Turn social anxiety into social skill one conversation at a time.
What Your Kid Will Learn Inside
Inside Evorify's What Can I Say?, kids will discover:
- 💬 How to start, hold, and end conversations confidently
- 🤗 How to express empathy and comfort a friend in need
- ✋ How to say no, set boundaries, and ask for help
- 🕊️ How to apologize, compromise, and resolve conflict
Why Families Choose Evorify's What Can I Say? Over Any Other Social Skills Book
Unlike vague advice books, this one gives kids something they can actually use.
- ✅ Real scripts - not just advice or theory
- ✅ NY Times Bestseller with thousands of 5-star reviews
- ✅ Fun illustrations and quizzes kids love
- ✅ Works for ages 8 through teen and beyond
- ✅ Used by therapists, teachers, and parents worldwide
The social skills book that actually makes a difference - backed by a 30-day money-back guarantee.
Customer Testimonials
The scripts in this book are genuinely magic
My daughter was saying I don't know what to say in almost every social situation. After two weeks with this book she was using the phrases naturally - like she had always known them. I could not believe the change.
My son's teacher noticed the difference before I did.
She pulled me aside at pickup to ask what had changed. He had started including other kids, resolving conflicts calmly, and even apologizing unprompted. All I had done was give him this book and read a few chapters together each week.
I was not expecting it to hit this hard.
Honestly I bought it thinking it would be a nice activity for a rainy afternoon. My 9-year-old read the whole thing in three days and has not stopped referencing it. It is funny, it is smart, and it genuinely teaches something.
Best back-to-school gift I could have found.
My daughter was starting a new school and was terrified about making friends. I gave her this book the week before and she went in with actual tools - not just encouragement. She came home with two new friends on the first day.
This is the resource I recommend to every single family
I am a school counselor and have been looking for a book like this for years. It is practical, inclusive, age-appropriate, and written in a voice kids actually respond to. I now keep a copy in my office at all times.
I ordered three more copies for my kids' friends
The moment my son started quoting it at dinner I knew I needed to get it for everyone. The chapter on letting a friendship go quietly helped him handle something really painful in a way I could not have coached him through alone.
Looks fun. Reads even better.
My 11-year-old is not a reader. This is the first book he has picked up voluntarily in two years. The illustrations and the quiz format completely won him over, and then the content did the rest.
Everything a social skills book should be
I have tried workbooks, therapy apps, and YouTube videos. Nothing stuck the way this book did. The scripts are practical, the tone is never preachy, and my daughter comes back to it on her own when something hard happens at school.
Five stars without hesitation.
This book made me realize how little I was taught about communication as a kid - and how much I was guessing as a parent. Reading it with my children has been one of the best things we have done together this year.
Frequently Asked Questions
The best results come from reading it together as a family or in short sessions the child leads themselves. After each chapter, try practicing the scripts out loud in a low-pressure setting - like at dinner or on the way to school. Kids who rehearse the language even once before they need it are significantly more likely to use it when the real moment comes.
Absolutely. Even confident kids benefit from having the right language ready for harder situations - like ending a friendship kindly, standing up for someone else, or navigating disagreements without damaging relationships. The book covers nuance that even socially adept kids rarely get taught explicitly.
Not at all. Each chapter is fully self-contained, so kids and parents can jump straight to whatever feels most relevant right now. Many families use it as a reference - flipping to the right chapter when a specific situation comes up in real life rather than reading it cover to cover.
Many parents report noticing changes within the first two to three weeks - particularly in how their child handles conflict and initiates conversations. Results vary depending on how actively the child engages with the material, but the accessible format and practical scripts are specifically designed to produce real changes quickly.
Yes. The paperback format is designed for regular use and holds up well through repeated reading and handling. We recommend storing it somewhere accessible so kids can reach for it on their own when something comes up, rather than treating it as a special-occasion item.
Try it for 30 days, and if you are not happy for any reason, we will refund you in full under our 30-day money-back guarantee. Your purchase is completely risk-free.
Absolutely. Even confident kids benefit from having the right language ready for harder situations - like ending a friendship kindly, standing up for someone else, or navigating disagreements without damaging relationships. The book covers nuance that even socially adept kids rarely get taught explicitly.
Many parents report noticing changes within the first two to three weeks - particularly in how their child handles conflict and initiates conversations. Results vary depending on how actively the child engages with the material, but the accessible format and practical scripts are specifically designed to produce real changes quickly.
Try it for 30 days, and if you are not happy for any reason, we will refund you in full under our 30-day money-back guarantee. Your purchase is completely risk-free.